Choosing a personal stylist is more than a fashion decision; it’s an investment in your confidence, self-image, and how you show up in the world. With so many options out there, it’s important to find someone who not only understands style but also understands you.
1. Know What You Need.
Are you navigating a new life stage, motherhood, perimenopause, career change, and struggling with how your clothes make you feel? Do you want a complete wardrobe overhaul or simply need guidance on dressing for your shape? Be clear about your goals so you can find someone who specialises in those areas.
2. Look for Relevant Experience
A great stylist doesn’t just dress people; they transform lives. Look for someone who has real-world experience helping clients like you. Whether it’s media appearances, body changes, or everyday confidence, your stylist should have a proven track record of success.
3. Review Their Work
Any stylist can talk about style. The right stylist can show you the results. Browse their portfolio, client testimonials, and social media presence. Do you see transformations that reflect your goals? Can you picture yourself in the ‘after’ shots? Maybe their own style and body shape resonates?
4. Make Sure They Align with Your Values.
Style is personal. Your stylist should create a safe, supportive environment, especially if you’re feeling vulnerable about your body or appearance. If inclusivity, respect, and body confidence matter to you, choose a stylist who makes those values a priority.
5. Explore Their Services.
Not all stylists offer the same packages. Some provide one-off sessions, while others offer memberships, virtual consults, or ongoing support. Choose someone whose services are flexible and tailored to your lifestyle and needs.
6. Observe Their Style Philosophy.
Social media is a great way to get to know a stylist. Do they offer practical tips or just post glossy fashion images? Are they relatable, informative, and invested in helping women feel good—not just look good?
7. Book a Discovery Call.
A good stylist will want to understand you, your lifestyle, your goals, and your insecurities. Use the consultation to ask questions about their approach, how they customise their services, and most importantly, how they help women like you feel confident again.
No matter what shape or size you are, I’ll help you create a wardrobe that works in harmony with your body. Women who wear sizes 12–18 often find it the hardest to get clothes that fit well, flatter, and feel good. This is a size range many brands still don’t cater to properly. But don’t worry. Finding the perfect fit in that tricky middle ground is one of my superpowers. I know how to source and style pieces that balance your proportions and highlight your best features with confidence and ease.
Photo Credit with thanks to Ksenia Belova 📸 – Personal Branding Photographer – Client Nicki Van Veen